I was reading Bre’s post about, well, life last night and I got to thinking about it. I left a comment that if I had some kind of “solution” that would give us any clue as to what we were supposed to do to know the direction of our lives, I would have bottled and sold it by now. When I think about it, though, I guess that does take all the fun out of a lot of life. The knowing and the ever-mysterious questioning is part of the journey, right?
I mean, don’t get me wrong. If I could bottle and sell something that no one else ever had bottled and sold before I would totally do it because that would probably mean I’d earn some cash which would then lead to me being able to finally buy every pair of flip flops ever made. And if you know me at all, you know that having all those flip flops and wearing them would then entitle me to run around making declarations that I am The Happiest Woman on Earth.
Speaking of happy, though, and the original point I started, I think I might already be there. Not that there’s no further to go, I know (and hope) there is. But what I also said on Bre’s post was something along the lines of “I don’t know when he’s coming along but when he does, he’s going to run into one really happy girl.” (Yes, I am too lazy to go read the comment and quote myself. I know. Shush.) Which, if I do say so myself, is pretty cool.
I’ve been going about a million miles a minute for the last few weeks. I’m not going to lie, I’ve been stressed more than an astronaut’s family during a spacewalk. (I know, random. But I had never considered how stressful that might actually be. Have you?) I’m currently staring down the double barrel of job changes and becoming a student again. I’ve got more family around right now than I know what to do with, friends that want to take me places with them and, oh yeah, the dog needs to go to the vet. There’s a guy coming to fix the door on Saturday, that project due at work on Monday, that resume you need to revise and oh yeah, it’d be nice if the bathroom were clean. I’m still tired from an awesome Tuesday night of four hours (FOUR HOURS!) of fantastic live music and still reeling from the four miles I put in on the treadmill (and I usually cannot stand the treadmill, you know).
And when it’s all together like that, in a mass of words and happenings and “things” it doesn’t sound stressful at all. It sounds good. It sounds full, like that “mmmmm” noise you might make when you give a really great hug to someone you love. It sounds like life.
So with my comment, it was just what came to mind. That’s what good is meant to be, what it’s meant to give. Happiness. Hope. Faith. The times, they are not perfect. The days, they’re long. But that solution, that “solution” to accepting what life is and where it might lead, I think it might be balance. Finding satisfaction somewhere between what you’ve chosen and what’s chosen you. It’s not reading too much into something* and yet, purposefully looking for what you know you shouldn’t miss.
* I feel a little like I hijacked my own comment and therefore, hijacked Bre. Sorry, Bre. Now let’s all go distract her by talking about shoes!
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