It’s turned into a bit of a rough week. I have a friend in hospice care, and while there are a lot of things I could write about, somehow they’re not creating the words they usually do.
I have to say, though, I’m consistently amazed by people.—they are there, they show up, they give. It’s absolutely stunning.
Beyond that, I’m going to go find some people to hug. I hope you do, too.
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In times like you are experiencing people often don’t remember the words even if we find something encouraging to say. What they do remember is the caring presence and the compassionate contact. Your friend and his family will remember that you were there and the hugs. Don’t underestimate their power.
Hugging is good and often fills a gap that words will never fill.
Lots of love to you Lesley. I’m thinking of you.
And… just so you know…
You have been an amazing friend to me when I needed an open heart and you know where I am if you want to drop me an email. Anytime.
And hugs to you too!
I’ll be thinking of you, and of your friend.
Life is always throwing us curve balls, isn’t it? I’m sending good thoughts your way
I’m so sorry about your friend. Here’s a hug from Seattle.
im so sorry to hear about your friend. here’s an e-hug for you.
Hugs your way!
Finding words in these situations is always so difficult. You want to express heartfelt emotion without sounding trite and cliched. Hugs say everything you want them to say.
I could definitely use a hug many days. I’m really sorry about your friend. I remember when my aunt went into hospice care in a nursing home and we knew she wouldn’t be leaving…it was so hard. Even when you have time to say your goodbyes, and give the hugs and work toward accepting it, it’s still so hard…sending you a hug right now.
It’s what people do.
I wish your friend well. And you as well, of course.
Hugs are the best. May you find all you need.
Wishing hugs could be send by e-mail.. but then I guess they wouldn’t be hugs…
Sending a virtual hug to you, my friend.
Hugs to you.